My Lazy Girl

I have forgotten the correct address to the purpose of my life. I never wanted to reveal this to you but since you were anxious enough to read between the lines, here I narrate you the paragraph. My dearest of all, I hold a reason for being away since long. Excuses are not entertained I know but here's a request to read this with a fraction of your patience. Thanks for bearing up. You know there were times and there are times when I feel I am sailing in the wrong direction or sometimes I don't even know whether the direction is right or wrong or just floating aimlessly. I am feeling those times, these days. I know whatever I am doing right now is not what  I am suppose to do. But the harder part of irony is, I also don't know what exactly I am supposed to do. (sounds weird? I know.) In other words I have forgotten the correct address to the purpose of my life. I never wanted to reveal this to you but since you were anxious enough to read between the line...

Work is worship, But then it takes time to perform the ritual .  I had a very delicious fruit cake an hour before leaving the office which left me with some good taste and thoughts altogether. [ Tip of the day: Good food leaves you with good thoughts. Choose it wisely. It helps!] As the clock stuck 6 p.m. (IST), I packed my stuff and rushed to find my cab. I tucked in the seat belt and before i could say something, my driver swtiched on the radio as he started the car. He shuffled channels after channels in the quest of good music with less commercials(that's the main agenda I guess.)  Tired by the day, I shut my eyes and let the music strike into my ears effortlessly till something got my attention and woke me up. What I heard next left me with all smiles and baffled thoughts.  A 26 year old guy who was a software developer, homeless & jobless in California was found selling his resume on the roads to random people. If that would have been the case, it wo...

Just relax, breathe. And those who don't let you breathe, choke them up too. You don't have to be a Saint every time.  Right from the moment we are born, we are judged and compared and rated on the basis of our caste, color, height, weight, behavior, character, skills and what not. Now that we are grown ups, we can focus on our skills because that's a major concern in today's scenario. We want everything around us to be perfect. Perfect neighbors, perfect son, perfect wife, perfect job, perfect house, perfect employees. But before making any attempts towards being perfect, tell me something, who sets these standards for you to be the one? Was that you? No!! Was that your spouse? No! Was that your manager? No! Was that the other person? Ahh, Yes! 90% of the problems that evolve and encircle our lives are because of that "OTHER PERSON" with whom you are not even concerned. You are not a "A" band performer. Look at your colleague. H...

Say, "It's OK." even when you do not want to say. It will make you feel lighter only. Let the things go. Let them flow. Letting go things is important! We all have our days. We all have our clocks, which alarms us at our own time. For some the alarm has to ring at 5 in the morning, for some it has to be 10, for some it has to be 12 and so on. This alarm which I am talking about today is our patience alarm in life. We all have our level of patience to tolerate a situation or a person to a limit and once that patience hits it's threshold, then it's a blast! Has any of you ever attended any self grooming or self awakening sessions of any respectful person or group? If YES, then you might be knowing that their teachings have one thing in common. And that thing is FORGIVENESS ! Now please don't judge my blog as some spiritual corner where you can bow your head and seek for guidance. No no. It's just I am quoting some very general scenarios wh...

Got a Problem? Let's solve it!  Now today this blog is for everyone of any age and gender across the world as the agenda behind my discussion is mutual to all. While reading this piece of my writing sincerely tell me that how often do we put our heads in our hands in despair thinking rather criticing, that "Why this has happened to me?", "What did I do wrong?",  "What was my fault?","Why happiness is annoyed and have forgotten my address?" We get hurt and then we cry, WHY? When rather we should ask "How?". I encountered a problem, fine. But now HOW should I figure it out? What's the next step?, should be the potential approach! Its life, get this thing very clear! Dont expect a rainbow each day! You should be ready to adjust yourself in all the weathers of life. Be it be the messy Rains, scorching Summers, pleasant Spring or the harsh Winters. ACCEPT AND ADAPT is the key to survival!  Everyone's life is ful...

Value the people who value you. Give them your best gift. Replace your money with your time, and you will see how your world blossoms. Many of the times we are rushing towards the wrong to get the right things done. We are always in an unstoppable race which most of the times we don't even know why and what we are running for. We are always on our toes rushing and running to get things done. Everyone wants to own a Ferrari, everyone wants to have a royal destination wedding, everyone wants to live in a thousand acre property. Everyone yeilds to have international trips in their private jets, if not private jets then no less than business class at least. Now some of you might think, Whats wrong if we want it? And even what's wrong if some of us already have it? But then I say its absolutely fantastic if you already have it. Go enjoy the luxury! But then again it's also equally fine not to have any of the above. It doesn't even matter. We often say, we need...

Be vigilant. Be skilled and so flat-out-fantastic that your talent can't be dismissed. Today I have something very relative for you in my bucket to share. But before that honestly tell me ,how often do you feel that something is missing in your lives when other ways you have plenty other things which one must be grateful for. How often do you feel that you are not interested in your jobs. How often do you feel to escape this world and find a better level to survive. How often do you feel that you are not able to climb high inspite of the several attempts. I somewhere think that I have answers to your questions but again before telling you about any of the solutions to above problems, let me clear you that I am by no means any inspirational speaker or some high tech guru or saint with a magic wand which claims to make your lives better. No no no ! I can't do that. Rather nobody can't except you. You have to use your own magic wand to make your life better. ...