My Lazy Girl

Say, "It's OK." even when you do not want to say. It will make you feel lighter only. Let the things go. Let them flow. Letting go things is important! We all have our days. We all have our clocks, which alarms us at our own time. For some the alarm has to ring at 5 in the morning, for some it has to be 10, for some it has to be 12 and so on. This alarm which I am talking about today is our patience alarm in life. We all have our level of patience to tolerate a situation or a person to a limit and once that patience hits it's threshold, then it's a blast! Has any of you ever attended any self grooming or self awakening sessions of any respectful person or group? If YES, then you might be knowing that their teachings have one thing in common. And that thing is FORGIVENESS ! Now please don't judge my blog as some spiritual corner where you can bow your head and seek for guidance. No no. It's just I am quoting some very general scenarios wh...

Got a Problem? Let's solve it!  Now today this blog is for everyone of any age and gender across the world as the agenda behind my discussion is mutual to all. While reading this piece of my writing sincerely tell me that how often do we put our heads in our hands in despair thinking rather criticing, that "Why this has happened to me?", "What did I do wrong?",  "What was my fault?","Why happiness is annoyed and have forgotten my address?" We get hurt and then we cry, WHY? When rather we should ask "How?". I encountered a problem, fine. But now HOW should I figure it out? What's the next step?, should be the potential approach! Its life, get this thing very clear! Dont expect a rainbow each day! You should be ready to adjust yourself in all the weathers of life. Be it be the messy Rains, scorching Summers, pleasant Spring or the harsh Winters. ACCEPT AND ADAPT is the key to survival!  Everyone's life is ful...

Value the people who value you. Give them your best gift. Replace your money with your time, and you will see how your world blossoms. Many of the times we are rushing towards the wrong to get the right things done. We are always in an unstoppable race which most of the times we don't even know why and what we are running for. We are always on our toes rushing and running to get things done. Everyone wants to own a Ferrari, everyone wants to have a royal destination wedding, everyone wants to live in a thousand acre property. Everyone yeilds to have international trips in their private jets, if not private jets then no less than business class at least. Now some of you might think, Whats wrong if we want it? And even what's wrong if some of us already have it? But then I say its absolutely fantastic if you already have it. Go enjoy the luxury! But then again it's also equally fine not to have any of the above. It doesn't even matter. We often say, we need...

Be vigilant. Be skilled and so flat-out-fantastic that your talent can't be dismissed. Today I have something very relative for you in my bucket to share. But before that honestly tell me ,how often do you feel that something is missing in your lives when other ways you have plenty other things which one must be grateful for. How often do you feel that you are not interested in your jobs. How often do you feel to escape this world and find a better level to survive. How often do you feel that you are not able to climb high inspite of the several attempts. I somewhere think that I have answers to your questions but again before telling you about any of the solutions to above problems, let me clear you that I am by no means any inspirational speaker or some high tech guru or saint with a magic wand which claims to make your lives better. No no no ! I can't do that. Rather nobody can't except you. You have to use your own magic wand to make your life better. ...

What else do you expect a girl to carry in her bag other than some lipsticks, liners, creams and pads?? Isn’t it OK?? I wouldn’t have written this blog today if I hadn’t encountered a situation which left me agitated and unheard and sad. So I thought why not try changing opinions by my words. Being a girl in India is a challenge in itself. Our fight starts the moment our gender is sonographed and revealed to the family. We are not asked if we want to survive and see this world, rather we are taken as option if our families want us or not. Ever heard a baby boy being aborted regardless of some complications? No right?? Yeah because they are not supposed to! And if you are lucky enough to born and accepted as a girl, then your struggle doesn’t end here. The film is yet to be shown. Things go smooth till we hit our puberty. Every single person who is born, be it a male or a female undergo certain physical mental emotional and Ofcourse hormonal changes in their body, but it’s alw...

I had everything that day (I mean I still have today) yet I felt so deprived in front of them! I was in my car that day while returning to home from my office. I opened the window to let the wind play with my hair and make me calm enough to plan the things further. Meanwhile I asked my driver to slow down the volume of the songs which were playing in the background as I was hardly interested in listening to anything except silence. I comfortably glide in the back seat of my car but what I saw next was strong enough to gave me food for thought. When I was peeping out through the window, I saw an auto rickshaw(not in a very good condition) packed with the people who had little money.( I don’t want to use the word “POOR” here as it has a heavy meaning). At the back of the auto rickshaw, sits a family of 3 people.  A middle aged couple and their young daughter. I looked at them with all the possibilities at the red light. They were lean and skinny as if they never had the l...

We all work for the same thing but with different agenda.We all have battles to fight but the victory is for the same thing. Similarly we might work at different places in different roles but for the same Motto in the end. MONEY ! Well March and April has ended and it’s the May time. Here i am talking specifically about March as many of us know that its that time of the year where the performance of an Engineer comes into picture. And then we are Promoted or Demoted accordingly! May the month of possibilities where the intensity of our hard work depends on the level of our promotions we get. Today this blog of mine majorly focus on the people who work in IT. By this time I know many people are injured from inside while others might be enjoying their weekend in the best possible way. Today I was in my bed for the entire day doing justice with the Sunday and constantly thinking how situations can change us to an extent. Like we IT people work our ass off to get butte...